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What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years

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Physical Development

During the pre-teen and teenage years, young people experience a rapid growth spurt. They may grow as much as 6 inches in height and gain 20 pounds or more in weight. This growth spurt can be accompanied by changes in body shape and composition. Boys develop broader shoulders and more muscular bodies, while girls develop breasts and wider hips.

Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years

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The growth spurt can also lead to changes in skin and hair. Young people may develop acne and their hair may become oily or dry. They may also start to grow pubic hair and underarm hair.

Emotional Development

The pre-teen and teenage years are a time of increased emotional intensity. Young people may experience a wide range of emotions, from happiness and excitement to sadness and anger. They may also become more self-conscious and sensitive to criticism.

This emotional intensity can be due to a number of factors, including:

Hormonal changes: The growth spurt that occurs during puberty is accompanied by a surge in hormones, which can affect mood and behavior.
Cognitive development: Young people are developing a more sophisticated understanding of the world and their place in it. This can lead to new insights and perspectives, but it can also lead to confusion and uncertainty.
Social changes: Young people are becoming more independent and spending more time with their peers. This can lead to new friendships and relationships, but it can also lead to conflict and rejection.

Social Development

The pre-teen and teenage years are a time of increased social activity. Young people spend more time with their friends and develop closer relationships with their peers. They may also start to date and explore romantic relationships.

This increased social activity can be a positive experience for young people. It can help them develop their social skills, learn about themselves and others, and build a sense of identity. However, it can also be a source of stress and anxiety. Young people may feel pressure to conform to their peers and may worry about being accepted and liked.

Parenting Pre-Teens and Teenagers

Parenting pre-teens and teenagers can be challenging. However, there are a number of things parents can do to support their children during this time.

Be patient and understanding. Remember that your child is going through a lot of changes. Be patient with them and try to understand their perspective.
Communicate openly and honestly. Talk to your child about the changes they are experiencing and answer their questions honestly.
Encourage your child to talk to you about their feelings. Let your child know that you are there for them and that you want to listen to what they have to say.
Set clear limits and expectations. While you want to be patient and understanding, it is also important to set clear limits and expectations for your child. This will help them learn self-discipline and responsibility.
Get support from other parents and professionals. If you are struggling to parent your pre-teen or teenager, don't be afraid to get support from other parents and professionals. There are many resources available to help you.

The pre-teen and teenage years are a time of significant change and growth. Parents and professionals need to be aware of the physical, emotional, and social changes that occur during these years in order to best support young people. By being patient, understanding, and supportive, you can help your child navigate these challenges and develop into a healthy and happy adult.

Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-Teen and Teenage Years

by Shana Nichols

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